I was recently contacted by Keith through my website and he asks these three questions:
If I had the chance to sit down with Jesus over a beer and ask him three questions, what would they be?
1. What is the real purpose to all this?
Obviously that’s a biggy but a few thoughts come to mind. I think first and foremost the primary purpose for this grand adventure that we are all on is to grow up. One of my favorite movies of all time is “Shadowlands” with Anthony Hopkins. In the movie, Anthony Hopkins playing the role of C.S. Lewis makes this statement: “God doesn’t want us to be Happy! He wants us to grow up. He wants us to learn to love and to be loved."
I think that our purpose here is to cultivate a wider and wider view of life and of other people and to come to some sense of our place in this vast cosmic symphony. We must come to recognize that impermanence is a fact. The span of a life is very short and we have but one to live out and we must become our truest and best selves even though this will be very disturbing to so many who only see who we used to be. As far as the spiritual life goes I would say that cultivating compassion for ourselves, for others and ultimately for all beings is the ultimate goal and this is true for all of the major religious traditions. I believe the universe is teeming with creative energy, and is at once beautiful and filled with wonders beyond description and at the same time violent, unpredictable, and destructive. We must learn to harness the creative energies which form our core just like they form the core of a planet or star and use those energies to manifest beauty, wonder, and love in our place in the universe. These are just a few of my musings on the meaning of it all but maybe it will spark some more conversation. Please add to these comments and join the community of conversation with Keith…and with all of us who are asking these questions.
2. Is love really only for a chosen few or are those a@@holes out there screwing it up for the rest of us?
Love is for everyone. And granted there are a lot of confused people out there groping in the dark and trying to use other people to fill a void that is within them but the bottom line is that Love is found in community and connection to others. So surround yourself with people who inspire you and people that are giving and receiving love in an honest manner and you will have much better opportunities to make contact with a good soul and to develop a loving relationship. It is about how you build your tribe, the quality of people you surround yourself with and your own openness to grow into your best self. Sometimes love is just outside your peripheral vision but so close. It is there, it is always there and you will find it in the presence of the best people you know so stick near them and build your tribe accordingly. Peace!
3. Is being gay really okay or am I basically screwed?
Yay! Finally an easy one! Being gay is fantastic, it is wondrous, and it has always been a beautiful part of the tapestry of being human. There is a Chinese blessing that says “May you live in interesting times”. Well my friend, for better or worse we live in interesting times with regard to societal evolution on the subject of being gay or straight. Humans are slow moving creatures and the pace at which we are coming to understand the beautiful array of human sexuality is causing a lot of suffering for many people. This is very unfortunate, and I wish it weren’t so, but I feel quite certain that we are making very rapid progress and that soon we will reach a tipping point and a great shift in consciousness will take place. Very soon it will be true that asking if a person is gay or straight will be about as interesting as asking their favorite color. I mean knowing a person’s favorite color is kind of interesting but it certainly doesn’t define the person. So it is with being gay or straight. We are far more complex beings than our sexual preferences but as a culture we still have a lot of leftover Puritan and Victorian influences around sex to work through. But take heart, it will happen – it is happening!
The last bit I’d like to say about being gay or straight is that many people still have deep concerns about the theology of it all. “Am I out of favor with God because I’m gay?” The short answer is of course no. But the truth is that theologically this is not even a difficult question! There is enough brilliant scholarship on this subject to choke a mule! There will always be debate and I must be respectful of differing views but from a biblical standpoint … “Gay” is not something God worries about, she has much more important things to do! If you want more info about the many books and articles that have been written affirming this position with unimpeachable scholarship I’ll be happy to pass them along. So, take a deep breath, smile at yourself and know that God beams at you like the shiny diamond that you are!
If I had the chance to sit down with Jesus over a beer and ask him three questions, what would they be?
1. What is the real purpose to all this?
Obviously that’s a biggy but a few thoughts come to mind. I think first and foremost the primary purpose for this grand adventure that we are all on is to grow up. One of my favorite movies of all time is “Shadowlands” with Anthony Hopkins. In the movie, Anthony Hopkins playing the role of C.S. Lewis makes this statement: “God doesn’t want us to be Happy! He wants us to grow up. He wants us to learn to love and to be loved."
I think that our purpose here is to cultivate a wider and wider view of life and of other people and to come to some sense of our place in this vast cosmic symphony. We must come to recognize that impermanence is a fact. The span of a life is very short and we have but one to live out and we must become our truest and best selves even though this will be very disturbing to so many who only see who we used to be. As far as the spiritual life goes I would say that cultivating compassion for ourselves, for others and ultimately for all beings is the ultimate goal and this is true for all of the major religious traditions. I believe the universe is teeming with creative energy, and is at once beautiful and filled with wonders beyond description and at the same time violent, unpredictable, and destructive. We must learn to harness the creative energies which form our core just like they form the core of a planet or star and use those energies to manifest beauty, wonder, and love in our place in the universe. These are just a few of my musings on the meaning of it all but maybe it will spark some more conversation. Please add to these comments and join the community of conversation with Keith…and with all of us who are asking these questions.
2. Is love really only for a chosen few or are those a@@holes out there screwing it up for the rest of us?
Love is for everyone. And granted there are a lot of confused people out there groping in the dark and trying to use other people to fill a void that is within them but the bottom line is that Love is found in community and connection to others. So surround yourself with people who inspire you and people that are giving and receiving love in an honest manner and you will have much better opportunities to make contact with a good soul and to develop a loving relationship. It is about how you build your tribe, the quality of people you surround yourself with and your own openness to grow into your best self. Sometimes love is just outside your peripheral vision but so close. It is there, it is always there and you will find it in the presence of the best people you know so stick near them and build your tribe accordingly. Peace!
3. Is being gay really okay or am I basically screwed?
Yay! Finally an easy one! Being gay is fantastic, it is wondrous, and it has always been a beautiful part of the tapestry of being human. There is a Chinese blessing that says “May you live in interesting times”. Well my friend, for better or worse we live in interesting times with regard to societal evolution on the subject of being gay or straight. Humans are slow moving creatures and the pace at which we are coming to understand the beautiful array of human sexuality is causing a lot of suffering for many people. This is very unfortunate, and I wish it weren’t so, but I feel quite certain that we are making very rapid progress and that soon we will reach a tipping point and a great shift in consciousness will take place. Very soon it will be true that asking if a person is gay or straight will be about as interesting as asking their favorite color. I mean knowing a person’s favorite color is kind of interesting but it certainly doesn’t define the person. So it is with being gay or straight. We are far more complex beings than our sexual preferences but as a culture we still have a lot of leftover Puritan and Victorian influences around sex to work through. But take heart, it will happen – it is happening!
The last bit I’d like to say about being gay or straight is that many people still have deep concerns about the theology of it all. “Am I out of favor with God because I’m gay?” The short answer is of course no. But the truth is that theologically this is not even a difficult question! There is enough brilliant scholarship on this subject to choke a mule! There will always be debate and I must be respectful of differing views but from a biblical standpoint … “Gay” is not something God worries about, she has much more important things to do! If you want more info about the many books and articles that have been written affirming this position with unimpeachable scholarship I’ll be happy to pass them along. So, take a deep breath, smile at yourself and know that God beams at you like the shiny diamond that you are!
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